Planning the First Meeting: Where to Go and How to Get Some Booty!
THIS LESSON IN SUMMATION: Getting laid on the first meeting isn’t all about putting on a good show. It’s also very important to pick the right venue/activity for someone you met on a dating site. Choosing the right place and having an “exit” strategy to get back to the place you’re going to have sex are the keys to getting laid.
Many of you have been married for years and probably forget what it’s like to go out on a first date. Even though you’re only trying to get down her pants, we want you to think of the first meeting as a “date”. Back when you used to go out on first dates, you likely attempted to put on a good show for her so you would either get laid or get a second date.
But it’s not all about putting on a good show. Even if you charm her, you might not get laid if she doesn’t enjoy the place/activity you selected. And, yes, it is YOUR choice on where to go since you’re the guy. A boring venue/activity will show her you’re a boring guy. Women don’t want to have sex with boring guys. So choose wisely!
The absolute BEST place to take her…
We’re unfamiliar with your city so we don’t have a specific location to select. But we can give you a general idea of where you should go regardless of the city you live in. The absolute best place to take her is a quiet lounge with dim lighting. It should not be just any lounge. The place you select should include…
- Comfortable seating (bonus points if they have couches)
- Dim lighting
- A location within a short drive/cab ride/walk to the spot you plan on taking her to hookup later
- A small crowd (so don’t go after 10:00 PM on a Friday night, go before)
- Music that you both enjoy
Time is of the Essence: How and Why You Should Quickly Take Her Back to Your Hotel
Don’t waste time on your first meeting. Take a look at your watch when you arrive. If you arrive at 7:00, your goal should be to be in and out of there by 8:30 at the very latest (preferably 8:15). Why do we suggest you get out of there ASAP? Because the longer you wait, the less interested in you she might become. Or she’ll get tired and no longer care to have sex.
You really need to make the meeting for drinks a quickie. As soon as you meet, sit down and buy her a drink. Chat with her for a bit. Pretend to give a damn about the things she’s interested in. Smile and make good eye contact. Maybe have one more round of drinks. After that, all you have to do is offer to go back to your hotel or wherever it is you planned on hooking up. At this point, if she’s interested in you, she’s likely to say yes.