It is hard to break up with someone who you have ever shared some part of life with. It is even harder especially during this time of the social media and internet. Many former, boyfriends, spouses, partners and girlfriends are seeking digital revenge. They are able to do so by posting fake images or even messages on your social sites for every person to see. Some vengeful mistress would go to a greater length of destroying his ex’s reputation.
According to recent research done by several online security firms they reveal that more than 50% of the people who are in a relationship share an account password with their partner. In addition, one out of three shared with their partners racy images.
The finding also showed that most individuals who have sent intimate videos and photos have so far regretted doing so. At least 10% say that their mistress have threatened racy images on the internet. Also 85 percent of men opted to change their passwords after breakups. There are many things which you can do protect yourself especially if you are sure that your mistress is vengeful.
Protect your privacy: Change the password of your social network to block her out
If your mistress was accessing your social network, then she can be able to change the password and block you out. She can start posting nasty things on your profile for every person to see. Cleaning up your social account is not easy as you may think. Fortunately, there are several things which you can do in order to clean up online harassment since, the internet has given you power as well.
It is possible to clean up a lot of harassing posts without the need of an expert. Let’s look at the necessary steps which you should take in order to recover your account. Then you can make your account more secure.
The first step is to ensure your machine is clean. Since, your mistress might have stolen your password while you were together. Nevertheless, she might have put a key logger on your machine in order to record your keystrokes and even screen shots and monitor all your computer activities.
Once you have cleaned up everything on your machine, you can reset with a strong password. This will keep her out of your accounts. In case, she has already changed your social media password, many online companies are helping people to recover their accounts and they are putting security measure to stop this. Therefore, it will be hard for someone to fake your indemnity.
After accessing, your account you can delete all messages which she had posted and you can put a notice that your account was hacked!!! Therefore, all your friends will know all nasty information which was posted about you that was not true.
Cut any connection with your mistress: Block your mistress after making your breakup official
Once you have made your breakup official, you will probably not want your ex to be popping over your social media accounts and give her an opportunity to post anything on your profile. In case, she also knows the passwords of your financial and email accounts, ensure that you have reset them too! It is always good to start afresh with a new account at Yahoo or Gmail since they provide an easy transfer of your updates and address book to all your family members and your friends.
Set a new PIN code or password for your gadgets and computers. Ensure that the app include a tracking feature which allows you- to track any stolen information. When creating your new passwords do not use numbers which you used to use when you were dating.
Ensure that your personal information is safe: Delete any intimate text messages, revealing photos and emails from your gadgets and computers
If you used to share your personal computer or gadget with your mistress, transfer your personal music, photos and any other important information to an external hard drive or a private cloud based storage account. By doing so, you will secure your personal information and privacy. Unfortunately, you cannot do much if you had sent your mistress steamy texts or racy photos. Once you have clicked on a send button, on a text or an email, it is out of your hand and control.
A private photo or video which you shared by a vengeful mistress can quickly spin out of your control and seen by thousands of people in a few hours. Once, it is out there the chances of taking it back are nil.
It is always in the best interest of both parties for emotional and security reasons to end things amicably.